Love

Let’s start with two stories,

First is, “A boy sees a girl, at first sight and he feels a sense of familiarity or attraction towards the girl and he approaches her to get acquainted with her. He proposed her when he got the chance and both go into relationship.”

In second case, “The boy becomes familiar with the girl, he understands the behaviour of the girl. Then one day, while talking to his friend he understands that he is attracted to that girl. Now, he will propose or he will just continue the way things are.”

The first case is depicted in most of the movies or books. However, this is one of the kind of love that happens. The rate of failure of this kind of relationship is high. I am not saying this only because of few relationships which I saw. I am saying this because it is explained in types of love. There are many reference articles for this. However, if you think that in second case if boy proposes then it will be a successful love story then you might be wrong. Here is an explanation for this, first love is like an attraction towards a person for certain period of time, because as time passes by they might not like the other person’s behaviour. In second case, they know each other’s behaviour but they will not be easily able to form that intimacy towards each other like first case.

All the things which I said in above paragraph is studied in behaviour of a person who is in love. For, a successful love story, a balance between those two is required. It’s not always true that first step should be like the first case. The start can happen like second case. Just right amount of intimacy should be created between those two.

I will suggest that if you are stuck in second case, at least do tell the other person about your feelings. I know it might change many things but at least, you will not have regret about it later.

Thank you for reading.